The New Sex Revolution: Back to the Basics

::stands:: Hi. My name is Nancy and I love sex.

I love everything about it. I have since I first discovered masturbation when I was 12 years old. I have had a unsatiable desire to learn as much as I could about it and have an open mind.

As much as I loved sex and wanted to start when I was 15, it wasn't until my early 20s that I had sex for the first time. It was amazing and my partner, who later became my husband, was interested in exploring and we had sex on a regular basis, at least three times a week. Even when things started going downhill for us we still had sex on a regular basis.

I've had several partners since then, both male and female, and have learned so much from each of them. A couple of the guys I have been with were married and one of the things that I learned is that while they still loved their wives they needed more in the bedroom, which is why they were straying. That once every few weeks to once a month thing just wasn't working for them. I don't blame them! It doesn't work for me either.

A friend of mine told me today that the average couple has sex ONE time a week. For couples with younger kids that one time a week becomes once every two weeks! I didn't want to believe her but a bit of research on the Internet has backed up her claim. No wonder there is so much stress and road rage!

Personally I would be happy with at least once a day, though more would be better, but was reasonably satisfied with the three or four times a week I was having it with first my husband then my long term boyfriend. If the sex had been bad it probably would have been harder to deal with but it was almost always good. With my boyfriend I think I can only remember like 10 times in the last five years that I didn't have an orgasm. That's pretty impressive I think!

Anyway, this blog is going to be about sex and helping couples start having more and better sex. I don't have all the answers but if I only help one couple then the world is that much better off. If you have any questions, don't hesitate to ask and leave me comments to let me know if stuff works for you or not.