My boyfriend and I are a bit adventurous in the bedroom and like to try some new positions. Usually we just go with whatever sounds like it might be different but we have looked at books. One place that we’ve been able to find inspiration has been the Kama Sutra. Here are a few positions that I think sound divine.
Inversion/The Put Under One
This is a position that I have tried before. It makes for a very unique feeling for both partners. He lays on his back while the woman straddles his hips, but facing away from him. She guides his cock into her pussy then leans forward, resting her breasts on his thighs. The woman is primarily in control as she moves back and forth. The great thing about this position is that it leaves the woman’s ass nicely exposed. This would be an excellent time for anal explorations with either his fingers or a toy. We were both amazed at how incredibly different it felt in this position and he was quite quickly brought to the point of orgasm. In The Put Under One position, the woman sits upright and does not lean forward. Check out this cool animation of the position.
The Elephant
This is a position that allows for vaginal or anal entry and sounds like it could be quite interesting. This position would work well if one partner is heavy set. One partner lies on their side with their legs pulled up like they’re sitting in a chair. The other partner kneels by the ass then enters the partner. From this position the kneeling partner can easily access both holes and the clit. An alternate position could be with the top leg of the one laying down resting on the kneeling partner’s shoulder allowing for better clit access. Check out this cool animation of the position.
The Surprise
This is a position that I’ve talked about in fantasy but haven’t tried it yet. Both partners are standing. The one in front bends over as if they are going to touch the floor with their hands. The other partner stands behind and penetrates either the vagina or the ass. The bent over partner should have both hands on the floor and be able to flex their knees. This is a very domineering position. If the bent over partner can relax then the ass is more accessible and anal play with fingers or toys can be used. You can find images for this and the next three positions here.
The Screw
This is another position that I haven’t tried but I would like to and is much like The Elephant. This position would also be good if one partner is heavy set. One partner lies on the bed with their ass right at the end of the mattress. The partner who is lying down has their body in an L shape with the legs fully extended out. The other partner kneels next to the bed and penetrates either the vagina or ass. From this position the kneeling partner can easily access both holes and the clit.
The Mill Vanes
This is definitely one I want to try during foreplay. The woman lies on her back while the man lies on top of her with his cock resting against her mound. His legs resting alongside of her arms and her legs can be wrapped around his waist. This allows him to stimulate her clit with his cock and her to have access to his ass and balls.
Have fun trying these positions or any of the other fun positions you'll find at the sites I linked to. Let us know what you did to 'mix it up' with these new positions.
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Sunday, February 11, 2007
Friday, January 05, 2007
Playing with Food
How many times as a kid were you told not to play with your food? Probably more times than you can count but that's all about to change. Not only should you play with your food you should bring it into the bedroom! Food makes for a great addition to bedroom fun. There are so many things you can do with it from eating, finger painting, licking and melting.
Chocolate:
Everyone loves chocolate and the bedroom is a perfect place for it. There is a natural chemical in chocolate that simulates the feeling of falling in love. You can feed each other some chocolate as you start the caressing and kissing and other types of foreplay.
Whipped Cream
This is a favorite bedroom treat. You'll want to get the stuff in a can, though I can see dropping dollops of the other stuff or using it like finger paint could be fun too. It is fun to create patterns and designs on the body with the whipped cream then lick it (and your partner) up. Use it all over. You never know where you might find an erogenous zone. The coolness of the whipped cream should give you a similar feeling as using ice (see below).
Cucumbers/Carrots/Squash
If you slip a condom over one of these veggies after it has been washed you'll find you have a unique play thing. This could be used alone or with a partner. For example, while you're in a 69 position he could slip it inside you for a unique feeling with all the bumps and unusual shapes. This is also good for those more impromptu adventures out and about and you don't have access to your toy chest. After you use the veggie for sex play you will want to throw it away, the stuff on the inside of a condom is not safe for human consumption.
Syrups/Pudding
You can use any flavor you like. Or you could find a variety of colors, which is easy with the pudding, and use it like fingerpaint on each other's bodies. You can use it like fabric paint and make 'puffier' lines with the syrup that you could fill in with the 'fingerpaint'. When you're all done lick each other clean.
Ice
Ice can cause incredible reactions with the coldness of the ice and the heat of your bodies. You can lightly caress nipples with an ice cube or her clit. You can hold the ice cube in your hand and let the cold water drip onto nipples or her clit. You could suck on it before going down on each other. If you're going to use prolonged exposure to an ice cube you should wrap it up so as not to cause damage like an ice burn.
These are just a few of the food items you can bring to bed with you and put to good use in spicing up your love life. Bon appetit!
What foods have you used? How did you use it? Did it enhance your love making?
Chocolate:
Everyone loves chocolate and the bedroom is a perfect place for it. There is a natural chemical in chocolate that simulates the feeling of falling in love. You can feed each other some chocolate as you start the caressing and kissing and other types of foreplay.
Whipped Cream
This is a favorite bedroom treat. You'll want to get the stuff in a can, though I can see dropping dollops of the other stuff or using it like finger paint could be fun too. It is fun to create patterns and designs on the body with the whipped cream then lick it (and your partner) up. Use it all over. You never know where you might find an erogenous zone. The coolness of the whipped cream should give you a similar feeling as using ice (see below).
Cucumbers/Carrots/Squash
If you slip a condom over one of these veggies after it has been washed you'll find you have a unique play thing. This could be used alone or with a partner. For example, while you're in a 69 position he could slip it inside you for a unique feeling with all the bumps and unusual shapes. This is also good for those more impromptu adventures out and about and you don't have access to your toy chest. After you use the veggie for sex play you will want to throw it away, the stuff on the inside of a condom is not safe for human consumption.
Syrups/Pudding
You can use any flavor you like. Or you could find a variety of colors, which is easy with the pudding, and use it like fingerpaint on each other's bodies. You can use it like fabric paint and make 'puffier' lines with the syrup that you could fill in with the 'fingerpaint'. When you're all done lick each other clean.
Ice
Ice can cause incredible reactions with the coldness of the ice and the heat of your bodies. You can lightly caress nipples with an ice cube or her clit. You can hold the ice cube in your hand and let the cold water drip onto nipples or her clit. You could suck on it before going down on each other. If you're going to use prolonged exposure to an ice cube you should wrap it up so as not to cause damage like an ice burn.
These are just a few of the food items you can bring to bed with you and put to good use in spicing up your love life. Bon appetit!
What foods have you used? How did you use it? Did it enhance your love making?
Wednesday, January 03, 2007
Making Time: Moving Sex Up the Priorities List
I was talking to a friend the other night about my blog and its purpose. He said that my goal is nice and he would love to be having more sex but there just isn't time in their lives for it. That is a load of bullshit. I said it is no different than deciding to go to the gym to do a half hour workout. He said he'd never thought of it that way. Well, duh! Then he said he guessed sex was not as much a priority for them as it was for me and my partners.
When I was married we had regular sex from the time we started living together until things went really bad and we separated. He worked a full-time job while I worked various jobs, some were part-time and others full-time. He went to karate class twice a week. A few years after getting married we had a child. We were busy people with a lot of possible distractions and reasons to say "we're too tired to have sex" but we didn't. Sex was important to both of us and was a priority for helping to keep our relationship stronger.
Making it a Priority
Your sex life is only going to be better and more active if you choose to make it more a priority in your life. It isn't going to happen overnight and you will most likely have to make changes, possibly some major ones, in how things are done. And remember, you don't need an hour, though that would be wonderful! 15-30 minutes should be enough time to get mostly undressed and do the deed. Here are a few suggestions.
Schedule time to be intimate. Instead of going to the gym one night a week, choose to stay home and have a 'workout' in the bedroom. You'll still be burning calories and improving your general state of being.
Put a lock on the door. Tell the kids "it is Mommy and Daddy time" when the door is locked. Unless someone is really sick, seriously hurt or bleeding don't let them in. This will not only allow you the freedom to be intimate but it will also help your kids learn that parents need to take time for themselves too and will hopefully carry that thru to their relationships.
Pad the walls to keep sounds from the outside world from leaking in or your moans from leaking out. If you can't feel comfortable having sex because of the noises, then see what you can do about keeping them either in or out. If you can't relax then you're not going to enjoy the sex, if you're able to get that far.
Take advantage of unexpected moments of free time. The kids are at the neighbor's house playing for an hour or so and you're all alone. Put down the rake and mop and get your butts up to the bedroom! The kids are wrapped up in watching a movie that is an hour and a half long. Make sure they have snacks and something to drink then get yourself to the bedroom.
Send the kids to Grandma's or Aunt Peggy's house for the evening or an overnight visit at least once a month. As much as you need to make time to have sex become more a part of your life you also need to make time to be a couple. So many couples forget this and never have time to relax. If you can't afford to go out, have a picnic on the living room floor ... or, better yet, in bed!
It is the new year and it's not too late to make a few new resolutions. Make a resolution today, as a couple, to make spending intimate time a priority in your relationship and put the 'seal' on it by actually making the time to have sex.
When I was married we had regular sex from the time we started living together until things went really bad and we separated. He worked a full-time job while I worked various jobs, some were part-time and others full-time. He went to karate class twice a week. A few years after getting married we had a child. We were busy people with a lot of possible distractions and reasons to say "we're too tired to have sex" but we didn't. Sex was important to both of us and was a priority for helping to keep our relationship stronger.
Making it a Priority
Your sex life is only going to be better and more active if you choose to make it more a priority in your life. It isn't going to happen overnight and you will most likely have to make changes, possibly some major ones, in how things are done. And remember, you don't need an hour, though that would be wonderful! 15-30 minutes should be enough time to get mostly undressed and do the deed. Here are a few suggestions.
Schedule time to be intimate. Instead of going to the gym one night a week, choose to stay home and have a 'workout' in the bedroom. You'll still be burning calories and improving your general state of being.
Put a lock on the door. Tell the kids "it is Mommy and Daddy time" when the door is locked. Unless someone is really sick, seriously hurt or bleeding don't let them in. This will not only allow you the freedom to be intimate but it will also help your kids learn that parents need to take time for themselves too and will hopefully carry that thru to their relationships.
Pad the walls to keep sounds from the outside world from leaking in or your moans from leaking out. If you can't feel comfortable having sex because of the noises, then see what you can do about keeping them either in or out. If you can't relax then you're not going to enjoy the sex, if you're able to get that far.
Take advantage of unexpected moments of free time. The kids are at the neighbor's house playing for an hour or so and you're all alone. Put down the rake and mop and get your butts up to the bedroom! The kids are wrapped up in watching a movie that is an hour and a half long. Make sure they have snacks and something to drink then get yourself to the bedroom.
Send the kids to Grandma's or Aunt Peggy's house for the evening or an overnight visit at least once a month. As much as you need to make time to have sex become more a part of your life you also need to make time to be a couple. So many couples forget this and never have time to relax. If you can't afford to go out, have a picnic on the living room floor ... or, better yet, in bed!
It is the new year and it's not too late to make a few new resolutions. Make a resolution today, as a couple, to make spending intimate time a priority in your relationship and put the 'seal' on it by actually making the time to have sex.
Thursday, December 28, 2006
The New Sex Revolution: Back to the Basics
::stands:: Hi. My name is Nancy and I love sex.
I love everything about it. I have since I first discovered masturbation when I was 12 years old. I have had a unsatiable desire to learn as much as I could about it and have an open mind.
As much as I loved sex and wanted to start when I was 15, it wasn't until my early 20s that I had sex for the first time. It was amazing and my partner, who later became my husband, was interested in exploring and we had sex on a regular basis, at least three times a week. Even when things started going downhill for us we still had sex on a regular basis.
I've had several partners since then, both male and female, and have learned so much from each of them. A couple of the guys I have been with were married and one of the things that I learned is that while they still loved their wives they needed more in the bedroom, which is why they were straying. That once every few weeks to once a month thing just wasn't working for them. I don't blame them! It doesn't work for me either.
A friend of mine told me today that the average couple has sex ONE time a week. For couples with younger kids that one time a week becomes once every two weeks! I didn't want to believe her but a bit of research on the Internet has backed up her claim. No wonder there is so much stress and road rage!
Personally I would be happy with at least once a day, though more would be better, but was reasonably satisfied with the three or four times a week I was having it with first my husband then my long term boyfriend. If the sex had been bad it probably would have been harder to deal with but it was almost always good. With my boyfriend I think I can only remember like 10 times in the last five years that I didn't have an orgasm. That's pretty impressive I think!
Anyway, this blog is going to be about sex and helping couples start having more and better sex. I don't have all the answers but if I only help one couple then the world is that much better off. If you have any questions, don't hesitate to ask and leave me comments to let me know if stuff works for you or not.
I love everything about it. I have since I first discovered masturbation when I was 12 years old. I have had a unsatiable desire to learn as much as I could about it and have an open mind.
As much as I loved sex and wanted to start when I was 15, it wasn't until my early 20s that I had sex for the first time. It was amazing and my partner, who later became my husband, was interested in exploring and we had sex on a regular basis, at least three times a week. Even when things started going downhill for us we still had sex on a regular basis.
I've had several partners since then, both male and female, and have learned so much from each of them. A couple of the guys I have been with were married and one of the things that I learned is that while they still loved their wives they needed more in the bedroom, which is why they were straying. That once every few weeks to once a month thing just wasn't working for them. I don't blame them! It doesn't work for me either.
A friend of mine told me today that the average couple has sex ONE time a week. For couples with younger kids that one time a week becomes once every two weeks! I didn't want to believe her but a bit of research on the Internet has backed up her claim. No wonder there is so much stress and road rage!
Personally I would be happy with at least once a day, though more would be better, but was reasonably satisfied with the three or four times a week I was having it with first my husband then my long term boyfriend. If the sex had been bad it probably would have been harder to deal with but it was almost always good. With my boyfriend I think I can only remember like 10 times in the last five years that I didn't have an orgasm. That's pretty impressive I think!
Anyway, this blog is going to be about sex and helping couples start having more and better sex. I don't have all the answers but if I only help one couple then the world is that much better off. If you have any questions, don't hesitate to ask and leave me comments to let me know if stuff works for you or not.
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