Roleplaying Fun

Role playing is a great way to deepen and enrich your relationship. When both parties feel safe and secure, this playing often results in you both finding out more about each other -- what you want done to you and for you. It will broaden both of your horizons and allow your fantasy world to be revealed. Expectations can be thrown out the window, traditions flushed down the toilet. The time you spend role playing will be well spent communicating with and pleasuring yourself and your lover.

Stripper
A lap dance is a deeply sensual act, and when done properly, leaves both participants feeling rather randy. If the person playing the dancer is very conscious of their body there are a few things you can do to help ease their concerns. Dim the lights or use red lights (covering a normal lamp with red material also works). Any lumps and bumps are smoothed out. Keep in mind that the removal of all clothes is not strictly necessary, so let your partner know they can keep on some sexy clothes. As long as the moves are hot and the lighting is appropriate, it will look great and the effect will be the same.

You’re a dancer in a club and are asked to do a private dance. You take the client into your private booth and close the curtains, then proceeds to do your best striptease. There are rules: no touching and no kissing. He may put money down her garter belt. He must keep his clothes on.

A sexy twist on the paid strip scenario is for it to be impromptu. For example, your partner locks you in the garden then gives you a decadent strip tease through the window where you can see but not touch or get in the house until they say.

Boss and Secretary
It is supposed that the boss is in control and calls the shots, but when sex is involved, this shifts to a dangerously sexy level where the employee or secretary is actually calling the shots. The employee loves this because it gives them the power in that particular situation, even if they have none (or very little) at other times at work.

The secretary hides underneath the boss’ big desk before an important meeting. The secretary performs oral sex on the boss while they are in the middle of an important business deal. The clients are sitting right in front of the desk. They have to keep a straight face and continue on with the meeting. Alternatively, they may be on the phone (doing this for real is fun) and has to continue with the phone conversation without faltering.

The secretary wears some very, very sexy underwear to work. She has to try to show her boss what she is wearing while still maintaining a “professional” appearance. She teases him as she does the photocopying, while she puts papers on his desk, while he is talking to her. She has to seduce him without taking her clothes off. A strip tease can also be incorporated into this scenario, where he cannot touch her until she says so.

Photographer and Model
The sexy part about this is the no touching rule, which leads to imaginations running rampant. The photographer and model scene is great for watching each other and acting out fantasies. It can be used to encourage your partner to be something they may have always wanted to be -- a devil in front of a camera, but with no proper opportunity to do so.

Lighting is incredibly important. Use props so your partner can cover themself in key areas should they want. You want then to be making love to the camera, and the person behind it. The beauty here is basically ordering each other to do things. Use a filmless camera or a digital camera then erase the pictures immediately following your sexy session.

A photographer has a studio set up and wishes for the model to pose for some sexy nudes. When the model arrives they drink some champagne and discuss the shots. Once set up, the photographer tells then how to stand and pose with whatever props the photographer likes.

The photographer has a new model prepared for some nudes they have to do for a client. The theme the client has asked for is “dripping sexuality with sophistication” -- the client wants the model to express their sexuality in whatever way he or the photographer deems appropriate, using any props necessary.

These are just a few scenes you can try. Let your imagination run rampant. If developed correctly, comfortably and with sex appeal, role playing can become a successful way to get what you want out of your sex life without having to leave the house. As always: explore and enjoy -- you’ll both be better for it.