A loose attempt at a plot, bad acting and way too many close-ups of things there should never be close-ups of are the common traits of most porn that is readily available at the local video store. But not all porn is like that. There are some out there that actually have stories and aren't just a great big continuous fuck fest. These are the movies that you want to bring into the bedroom with you.
Porn, obviously, is typically used to spark a physical reaction. Watching two (or more) people get it on can cause all sorts of wonderful things to happen to your body. But that's not all they're good for! They can also be used to give you ideas on new positions, better ways to do various acts like giving him a blowjob or fingering her, and even new ideas on where to have sex. Guys will probably appreciate this idea more than the gals but I am sure you'll be able to find something that works for both of you.
This could also be a good time to introduce your partner to something that you're interested in exploring. You could watch a video or two together to 'educate' your partner then maybe try it out yourselves. Or it could just be something you fantasize about but aren't interested in trying, you just enjoy watching people do that thing.
Home Videos
Gone are the days of the expensive home video camera, even digital video cameras aren't very expensive. All you need to become an amateur movie maker is a tripod, a bit of trust, and a willingness to try something new. Heck, you don't even have to really have a tape in the camera! Just the thought of having it all captured on film could be enough to get those juices really flowing.
Write a little story to go along with your movie making. Have all that stuff you do follow the storyline. Use your imagination and spice it up a bit. Pretend he's your Egyptian slave boy or that she's a geisha girl. Have a picnic at the shore and make love on the pretend beach otherwise known as your bed. Find a CD with waves crashing and other beach sounds to play to make it more realistic.
You could also make a special video present for your partner. Set the camera up in the bedroom, bathroom or wherever and masturbate while you say their name and talk about what you're imagining the two of you are doing.
I am a larger woman so watching my boyfriend go down on me has never really been an option. I could see him down there but I couldn't see what he was doing. One night he hooked the video camera up to the TV with no tape in and he held the camera as he ate me out so that I could see what it looked like. I had the most amazingly intense orgasm. Then while we were having sex he held the camera so I could watch him moving in and out of me. It was so amazing to get to see what he saw all the time.
This can be a great way to add a bit of spark to your bedroom fun. Just make sure you're both agreeing to the video taping and the use of the tape afterwards. Let us know what you did and how it turned out!
Caution: If you really do video tape yourselves having sex, make sure you remove the tape and put it somewhere safe. You do not want little Joey finding it!
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