Saturday, January 13, 2007

Treasure Chest of Fun

Do you currently have any sex toys? Are they used only when playing by yourself or do you use them together? If you don't have any or you only use them when alone, then you're missing out on a great opportunity to explore and enhance your sex life. There are so many different kinds of toys out there from dildos and vibrators to pocket pals and cock rings. They come in a variety of colors and materials. You can even get dildos made of glass!

Dildos and Vibrators
This is really a preference thing. I don't typically like dildos for use on myself as they don't really add to what is going on. Vibrators, on the other hand, can be used on either partner almost anywhere to cause a tingling sensation. They can be used in so many different ways that they are a requirement for any toy treasure chest.

Anal Toys
These can really add to the fun and introduce a whole new avenue of fun for sex. They have kits that have a variety of sizes from very thin to about the size of a regular dildo. You can also get anal plugs that can be inserted and left there while you have intercourse the regular way. This could also, but not necessarily, lead you to the path of having anal sex. There are a few important things to remember: use lots of lube, clean toys really well afterwards, and if you're going to have anal sex, use a condom.

Pocket Pals
These toys are just for the boys but they could still be used for fun as a couple, perhaps just in foreplay. Typically these toys have a hole for the cock to be slid into then the guy pumps his cock in and out of it. Some of them vibrate. They come in a variety of styles including ones that look like pussies and asses.

Cock Rings
I had one lover who used them and it was to help keep his cock hard after things got started. These also come in a wide range of styles and materials. As long as they're used properly they can add a bit of extra pleasure for the guy. Some have bits added to help make the sex more pleasurable for the woman too.

Blindfolds
This can change your whole perception on touch, but does require a bit of trust. You don't know where you're going to be touched, how or with what putting the sense of touch in high gear. I know when I've been blindfolded everything that touches me has nearly twice the sensation it would have had otherwise and it takes a lot less time for me to get stimulated to orgasm.

Dolls
There are dolls for both genders (and animals, if you sway that way) and they can be used to 'add a friend' to the mix without the jealousy and trust issues. Some are more realistic than others, and the more realistic you get the more money it costs. These can be used in a variety of ways, and may seem silly at first but you never know.

These are just some of the toys you can have in your treasure chest of fun. You should have several different toys in your treasure chest and experiment with them in different ways. Who knows? Maybe you'll discover something new and exciting that gives you the best orgasm you've had in awhile.

Did I miss your favorite toy? How do you use your toys? Let us know!

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I'm a vibe girl, definitely, and blindfolds, yes. You missed the great fun that can be had with handcuffs! Or just a scarf. Any kind of "handcuffing" gadget, lol. Probably my third favorite of all :)

Nancy said...

Cuffing, more on blindfolds and those sorts of things are going to have their own little article. Much more needs to be said about that sort of stuff.